ISLAMIC: Dear my future husband

Assalamualaikum.

p/s: It's so cliche but so me. I actually don't wanna post this but yup. I already did it.

Dear my future husband,

How are you doing right now? Are you okay? Have you eaten? I actually don't know what to write , but I want to tell you everything. I don't know how we gonna meet later, but I directly wanna to say...if you're being serious in this relationship. Please don't proposing me to be your girlfriend. I don't want to be your girlfriend. Massively no. I may reject that red roses, shining ring and become all such a awful moments. Sorry. Tame be to be your side forever, because I want to be the one you call as your wife.

Some people said don't rush in everything, love somehow take time. This is what make me different from other women, I not sound desperate but this is what my religion teach me. I know my limit, I need to lower my gaze repeatedly. Then, I may not see you in future... so make me make me yours. Let me be a happy women alive. Treat me like a queen, and we knows who is the king. We're indeed who wishing and dreaming. Make it come true. 

Here, I pray you understand me and stay in love with me forever. I may such un-perfection, but what make a love story beautiful? It's depend inside our heart.  That I still wishing you'll always be my halal prince charming. Who holding onto the Quran in your right hand and the Sunnah in the left hand. And riding your horse of Taqwa. Hold tight my hand and save me from this dirty world. Make it all worth it, and I will wait till the end, so I'll wait for you. Insyaallah.

I want to marry you, a man who fears Allah so he will treat you right because of his fear to Allah. This is what I believe, I will found it in you. As long we treat and fixed each other missing puzzle, we still be happy couple in future. Even-tough you who is not the one who calls me for only romantic talk... but he who calls Him five times for prayer. As my rules... That a man who cannot lead me in Salah, cannot lead me in life. Is it too harsh to you?

For your information, I want to make an apologize, I don't make my wedding day a pleasant memory in this life...but source of misery in the next. Which when you do marry me, I hope you do it so with the intention of Jannah where you plan to hold my hand and carry me together. Just like some said, true love doesn't end... it continues in Jannah, And then I know, I will love you forever and you love me  endlessly.

Our stories may not as fun as others lover, non a grateful to share. And, since when do love stories end in weddings? I want mine forever stay because we only just started from here. In this second, you're my chills, my cool person ever that what I admire and inspiring of. You may not have a strong muscle to show, but I know you have a lovely heart to give. Why I want all that? Because I want my kids to see you as their hero. And me, will support from the back. This is what I wish for, to my Creator. 

All those what I written here seems impossible to find someone like you. That said,Someone like this? I never found a man good enough for this. Or I will never get married, but they never know. You're existed. My true love, my plan. And, Allah is the master mind. Let me tell you a secret, I'm a hard person to love but when I'm in love... I love really hard. Allah is my only one. Prophet of Muhammad is my strength, and my family is my prove. One day you not only a love, a strength, a inspired to me but also everything to me.

One fine day. InsyaAllah, you'll be my side to the unknown journey. Love ya!

Hal Kahwin: Sunnah vs Society

Assalamualaikum.

(#related post to Hal Kahwin: Nilai Hantaran dan Majlisnya)

Hai.

First of all... i want directly mention that if you feel uncomfortable about my next statement.

Sorry.

You can immediately stop reading and log out of my blog.

Yes, i'm not talking a racist things but averagely what my religion teach me.

Just spreading the knowledge and sunnah.

... This is my own post.

And it's my right.

My main focus is about wedding ceremony vs society.

Because i know it's school holiday now...and surely lots of  invitations are on the list.

We go and bless them, and cheers the event.

Truly good.

It's a positive way in bonded the relationship but instead some are unlike in right path indeed.

That i'm afraid of.

Truly, i know that wedding ceremony is a big day in everyone life.

We'll want the best and the greatest.

Me too.

Some may say that this nonsense thing are trends.

Or others may a victim... Being forced to do a decision.

Grand or not or, some may not come.

Duh, hard enough.

Because this ceremony is like a competition contests as i seen so far.

Day by day.

And they became addicted in doing comparison.

My suggestion. For who want ranking, attention liker... just put your right hand at left chest and ask your Iman.

Did you notice, are this follow the sunnah or you only playing part with the society.

You felt satisfied and really no regret later on?

Confident your ceremony will be fully bless?

The soul of blessing from Him i'm talking about.

If you feel so... go on and just do it.

I love this picture. very. much.

Someone who under mid of tight decision. 

Think about them who like 'jaga tepi kain orang'.

Directly... who's care?

Yeah, until Kiamat/end the Day... this things will never faded,

But did you realize or come on, be alert.

This is your day. 

This is your decision.

This is your life.

This is your money.

Crazy, who created this?

In this phase,your can see how supportive and Islamic your spouse are.

How leadership and gentleman, he can be.

You will win every battle if you fight together, and you will lose if every battle you fight alone.

Impressed them, make them speechless.

Do a presentation if needed. 

LOL.

Seriously...

Nothing benefit if we please surrounding.

Rather than the peaceful blessed we get from Him.

Alhamdulillah.

Nikah/Marriage in in Islam is simple.

Bride, Groom, Custodian from the bride side, two witness and akad (qubul).

That's it.

Perfect conditions to build a mosque.

Beautiful and bless.

Then, when we combined it with all society, culture, traditions... suddenly everything becomes long and complicated!

Astagfirullah al azim.

Last words, 

If your spouse... your parents... your society... respect who you are.

They will let you make a good decision.

Because they understood and support that you never could start your new life without Allah's pleasure.

Peace.

Happy ending.

Please and please prefer sunnah over traditions, keep your wedding simple!
: )

Recipe: Ayam dan kentang panggang bersama Rosemary.

Assalamualaikum.

Hai.
My first thought about this recipe it's actually from lebihan sambal kisar dalam peti ais... and i try marinate ikut suka hati.
Hhahhah...
Kebetulan memang stock rosemary memang ada,
So i choose western style!
Like you know, grilled rosemary potatoes and chicken ala Malay style.
And the result is rocking me to the sky.
: )

Main herbs, rosemary.
You can get this from any supermarket.
Tesco or also available at small mart.
The smell is so refreshing.
Dia punya kegunaan like ketumbar, cengkih.
Pembangkit bau dan rasa masakan.

I have done this recipes quite a lot and it's so delicious.
Even my friends fans of it so much.
My family?
Not yet surprising them. May be later.
I can make it when dinner time.
My ayah surely love this.

Orait, Bahan-bahannya adalah:
1) Sambal yang dimasak, yang telah diletak bawang dalamnya. Banyak? Ikut suka kepedasan masing-masing. Or if malas nak masak-this bahan boleh skip. But the onion/bawang can put together while you grilled.
2) A chicken. Ayam seekor or ayam itu boleh dipotong. I prefer ayam yang dipotong but in big chunk. Selain cepat masak, the marinate is more lovely.
3) Kentang. Potatoes as much as you like. I cut in half all of them.
4) Bit of salt. Garam depends on how much your chicken are.
5) Rosemary as the main herbs. How much? May be a perfect chicken/seekor penuh, you can put a spoon and half of rosemary.
6) Oil. Little only minyak. Sebab your chicken will cried out their juice so we limited it.

Caranya:
1) Marinated all from no 1-5. Those sambal, ayam, kentang, salt and rosemary in one bekas dan tutup. Put in a fridge a day/half day. Untuk bagi meresap rasanya.
2) Then heat up your pan/oven. And put all inside.
3) Cooked until masak.
4) Done! Grillled Rosemary Potatoes and Chicken!

So dem satisfying!
My own pix 90% like this but minus the lemon. And replace with potatoes.
Selamat mencuba.