LIFE: Shiny bright light in the skies

Hi,

I know somehow I'm a super weird person ever live in this earth. And one of my favorite thing to do is to look up to the skies and think about life. I poured all my problems, promises, thoughts to the endless universe above. Maybe perhaps the star will blink more, the sun shine smilingly or someone at Pluto's will hear me and save me. Oh come on... Mars will be residential in next chapter. Then, be hype about all alien invasion soon. 

Get back to the earth, when I see the skies... I will picturing that all the clouds are holding my every dreams-Big or small. The weather is my challenge, sunny day is my favorite and if it's rain then a tears gonna come soon. I dunno, maybe nature hear me well. And for daylight, I will be think about random stuff but if it's night time... It will be more about soul and personal space. 

Deep inside me, I still have a heart to care about. There are a lots to talk about... a revenge towards people, ragging hormones in broken things, human that never understands me or surrounded by annoying noisy issues. I don't want any drama, it's all only in TV. I don't want them all. I want a free life with calm environments. Give me a break-hear me out. 

I'm so glad that in the end of my day, I will be more happy or ease about everything. Maybe the wind slowly blowing away my problems. Then, rise up my mood and hormones to get on my foot. The energy will come from nowhere but it is strong. On the spot, I'm ready to face a new day and this adventure life. I will move forward and no one gonna stop me. Thumbs up!

FINANCE: Living cost in Malaysia.

 Hi Malaysian,

Let's talk about money today. How good are you now in managing your own money? Pretty well or meh, not doing so good. I may not the perfect person to talk about this, but I still got the basic about financial management. Right, in helping you to do that... Do you know what are top three our money wasted on? Probably many will said foods! Yeah, foods is one of the reason behind it. But, the truly answer are...

In the first place is housing-Yeap! This part will burden you more if you have a house. Casually mortgage payment here may around Rm 1,800-800 per month. Or I can said some will have up to Rm 2,500...Yo. Then, this are not includes all the electric and water bills, the maintenance fees, the renovation, the groceries every weekend and  etc. Even if you not bought a house, housing will take part under rent amount. It still kicking you, but in a little amount. For my observation, this percentage will affect you 50%-60% randomly.

Second place is transportation. Nowadays, a car or motorcycle likes a must for everyone. This will cost you around Rm 1,000-500 per month. If you bought a second hand car, you can get around Rm 500-300 per month. Perhaps. Besides from daily petrol consume, you also must ready for some side cash money in case any situation likes car break down, tires flat, car services or travel scheduled. All this some how around 20-40%. If you don't mind, you can decrease this percentage by taking a public transport. Just use all the train, monoreal or bus. Another option, you can try online apps-Grab, Mytaxi and etc.

Last part is under your own self care. This topic will includes all the foods, gym fees, health insurance cover, kids side, cloths shopping, books, charity project and etc. People will spend around Rm 3,000-600 per month. I can state in a percentage, 60-40% wasted. This money can be lessen in some part like shopping while on sale, re-style kids cloth, use e-books, insurance cover with saving link or use public park than go to gym. This will take own encourage to change but it's all depends on our self.

Conclusion from the above, a cost for a family side I can said around Rm 8,000-5,000 per month. A cost living for a single person rounded to Rm 3,500-2,000. And if you want to have a saving in you account...You may need more than this monthly cost. So, make sure to earn more than your expenses. Another tips, please keep track your withdrawal and waste wisely. 

Happy life ahead!

LIFE: Whose fault is this?

 Hello!

I want to ask you all about one condition that I still thinking about it... I already discussed this situation with five to ten others matured adult people and until today, I'm lost. I still searching and dig it more because I want the best answered for it. It's actually not my problem but somehow I see that I can learnt beautifully about life from it. Just like others mistake or history that we have to take a look, and make sure not to repeat it too. Hopefully, you all can get something from today post. So, here the real story:

There is one man around early 30-an, who's still stay with their parents and on off for job. He's certificated only with High School knowledge and no more or less. He don't have any money in account, no asset to talk about and had a past in some 'dirty' issues. The problem are...when everyone advised him about to move on and get a new life. He said that all what he gone through is his FATE! This is what make me so mad. Hello... Nothing is call as fate until you're bloodily death. Huh. You're still has a mind to think and limb to make little efforts. Take a step forward even you have to craw or jump around on your own journey... Do something!

Previously in my post about-A seven years old kid, I already make some statement about how a person should be teach from a day they were born until 21 years old, through Islam ways. And back again, if something like above happened... Whose fault is that? 40% said their parents, and 70% blame that person himself. Yeah, for that age of 30 years old-You own your own life and responsible for own path. After 21 years old, your parents really don't own your crazy super high maintenance whatever you want. You want, get it by yourself.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your parents because you're not successful in life. Who are you to blame them instead you should pay back them for what they had sacrifices for you. Do you have maybe around 200,000 dollar right now to show them that they're wrong you're right? If no, just shut up and go away. That's the amount for all your foods, cloths, toys, hospital bills, housing, and etc. Don't you dare to open your mouth if you have any single penny about it. You're not even qualified in any aspect, uneducated life.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your siblings because you're not take their advice in past. When you're a kid, sibling is someone that very close in your life. You take it or leave it-Your choice. If you treat each other like 'rubbish', than you get what you give. Meaningless relationship surely later they will lose hope in you and not gonna be by your side. A lonely loser...what a pity life. Is it your truly fate? Meh, more like a stupid decision.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your friends because they show you a wrong way. Wow, what a thick face you have... Randomly blaming many people surround for own mistake in life. I don't know how to said, that how low people can put their brain are. Can maybe someday just throw your head and feed your brain to shark in the deep sea. There are lots of manual guide-old school, nerd and kind heart friends...Maybe it's too boring and you just do the skip to wrong way. Instead to pull yourself back on track, you're enjoying too much. No, no...

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your government because you're not get what you want. What a joke for today...Blaming something towards the concrete wall without any back support! You don't have a power of money, status even a good heart to prove. Millions thousand blaming you throw to them, they just laugh and enjoying your your own stupidity. Go, and built your own gun and come back if you want to fight. Real fight.

And lastly, I can said you're so RUDE if you still said it's all your FATE, because in big picture...You're blame your Creator for what ever happens in your life story. Such a shameful manners a sinner had. Everyday He give you a chance after wake up in the morning to go to heaven and enjoying better life but you willingly run to the hell. Such a wasted life and later I hope you not regret what are you doing...Because even a death person want to come back to life and show back the perfection in everything. Think carefully.

So whose fault is this? Now, I know my answer...He is the one should be blame. He is not dyslexia with worse in reading  or calculating. To bad, he blame people around him. I pray he and everyone that read this which have the same problem, will do some changes for better life and no regret when the times called. We treasure a happy ending episode!

Thought: .... and I will go for it

Hai. Happy Sunday guys!

Let's talk about my life right now, I can said everything going smoothly. I prays before end of this year, my goal will come true. This I called as big step in continues life for a better living and peacefulness. It's a good news actually... That I will share later on in my next post after I confirm everything. Can't wait anymore. 

This is quite terrifying to me actually but in the end I decided,

This is my life,

This is my journey,

This is my story,

This is my dream,

This is what I'm waiting for,

.... and I will go for it. 

And I can do it. Yes, just do it. Like Mr Nike quotes...I don't want to hold back and be regret later. My family member too excited for me and friends quite sad but they said it's a wonderful choice. I still need their support and advice in this big steps. I promise will share this amazing news as soon as possible to you all. Keep reading!

Five tips to decide if he is your real partner?

Hello,

I know everyone on this earth wants a happy ending in their relationship, me too. Imagine... me and my partner will in a long-lasting relationship until our golden age, also before I close my eyes forever. Sweet romance. Oh-please let it be me. And to do so, I have to find a real partner. A real men that  becomes reality which often bring out the better in me and our future. Here I listed some tips on how to decide this perfect figure...let's do it. Opps. If you're a men, you can change the the title name into she or her as vise versa:

1) His mindset 

I like men with brilliant mind. Maybe because I'm a bit matured than my age, so I need a man that can take care of himself than being a childish forever. I can said, I will not be their next ''mother''. Understood?  In some part I need sense of humor but some part reality hit us hard in fact I need he to be serious in time event. Also, his psyche will raise my children and their manners-not by his body and good looks. So, I need to choose wisely. 

2) His financial

I want a stability in financial, that later I shouldn't need to worried about my spending in sixty and about my children education too. I know I can't get a super rich man to marry me, so I just want a simple man that interesting enough in manage our financial. Let say he must know the expenses going on in the home, maybe sometimes help in groceries shopping, and think before buy something useless. That's because I prefer minimalist.

3) His religion

A real men should strongly believe in his religion. In many religion, it surely will talks about manner someone should be and how to respect others. If he can shows a respect towards me as his partner, in the same time he will reveal a good communication in our relationship. I know communication is very important in getting lasting relationship. So, I need to treasure this part deeply. Later, he can lead me and our little family towards better life. Ouwwww... Nice words. 

4) His cleanliness

I don't want to be a slave or maid in my own house even when I have a kid. My partner should know why tidiness is very important, and later my kids will learn from us. Not gonna said I'm freaking OCD person...but simply clean okay. So, how can I know that he is a decent man that later will maintain our home cleanliness? Not I hope he only dress to impress me, nah. Maybe I can check it out on how good he in keeping himself well groomed. Oh-Yes!

5) His anger/egoistic management

Anger and egoistic is part of life, but the real question is how we manage it? Every second, our hormones will be up and down, and the environment will messed it up more. So, men pretend be more aggressive angrier than a women. I want a peaceful married life not an abused one. It's not healthy for my skin to have a blue patch. Hehehheh... And I also want a less egoistic men to be discuss in everyday routine. Keep calm, why need to be so egoistic? Cool down and think something peaceful-Okay.