Assalamualaikum, Rasanya banyak blog will post about counting days ke tahun 2017. And menggembalikan era zaman kegemilangan start January sampai la ni. For me, i don't think i will remember all what i am doing and so ever. My memory space are limited. Banyak benda lain nak kena ingat. Sorry. But, whatever it is... i still wanna do it too. So, the two common questions for this entries post are did all my plans for 2016 dah tercapai? I can said, not all guys. Banyak lagi in my bucket list yang major untuk dikejar. Banyak lagi ilmu Allah nak kena belajar.  Pahala nak kena grab. Yela, dunia kan tempat kita collect semua tuh. Waktu nanti kena hitung kat sana, rasa worth it. Then, kena mantapkan lagi financial part. My most awesome umrah project still in progress.... But so far so good, im happy with my life and all the achievement. Alhamdulillah. Maybe not so perfect. But I'm ok. Dayung sikit-sikit. And what's my plan for 2017? Main pa

Assalamualaikum. Last weekend, masa ramai orang busy celebrating Krismas. Me after post call pagi tuh, terus cabut dengan Uber and meet my friend, Farah, kat Ampang Park and heading to PWTC. Shopping time for YES Mood Republik Festival 2016. Wuhuuu! Masa time sampai, kami daftar dulu. And teman dia breakfast. After that, que untuk masuk. First thing first, kami serbu goodies bag dulu. Sebeb nih limited kan. So, grab la benda free-free nih kan. We got a shirt with Mood Republik logo. Oh key, nice... even i still aspect dapat free shawal AJ ke like before. Anyway, thanks Mood Republic. And after that tengah nak pilih-pilih, dapat free mee goreng. Nih sponsored by some company. Lupa nama dia apa. Then, jalan-jalan lagi. Semangat nak collect benda free. Hahhahhah... Lol. Overall, i bought two items from Losravelda. First time dengar this brand and i like all their design. And with this two items, I just spent RM 100.00 sahaja. Murah gila kan? And with that i got f

Assalamualaikum. Dah nak 2017, so sekolah dah start nak mula. Mesti excited la si Ziqa and si Qistina. Budak nak daftar standard One. Meriah la mulutnya pot pet, pot pet. Tak tahulah diorang will cry or not masa orientation nanti. Hhahahha.... And, untuk si Apiz and Adam, They will dafter untk kindergarten plak. Rasa Adam mesti cool abes. Sebab dia emtionless. Aiz ni, manja sikit. Not sure, but physically dia keras. Kasar kata orang tuh. And yang kecik teno-et, si Aishah, Ans and Peah just dok rumah diam-diam jela. Berderet anak sedara kan... Perangai pon macam-macam. Anyway, tak dapat teman diorang masuk sekolah. Job calling. But, ada my younger sister, my emak and ayah untuk teman sebab my sister kerja. Alhamdulillah, Ada gak peneman. Kan. Hope diorang belajar rajin-rajin and keep the cool side with them. Ridu sama zaman sekolah. Rindu my kawan-kawan sekolah dulu. How fast time flies!

Oh kay, as i said before... kami se-family memang gila pantai. Whatever it is season yang tak boleh gi ker... Kami redah jer. So, here photo yang terbaru. Mereka pergi la pantai... without me, of course. And here, Peah joining too. Donno what style she means in this photo. But, as long she happy... we all happy. BAudak-budak ni lagilah happy. Si Ziqa and si Apiz dah syok main air la tuh. Such a beautiful momets. Rindu korang semua!!!

Assalamualaikum. Pada hari jumaat yang lepas, berkesempatan untuk menunaikan solat Subuh berjemaah. Alhamdulillah. Pagi itu, imam buat tiga rakaat. After solat... masih terpinga-pinga. Should i do another Subuh prayer again or not? Hurm.... On the way nak pergi tempat kerja, gi la Googling ni semua. Risau gak. So, after web ke web yang lain. Barulah tahu apa sebenarnya yang berlaku. Ya Allah, cetek ilmu lagi rupanya. Insaf... insaf... Just get in yang imam tu buat sujud tilawah pada rakaat pertama. Maksudnya, imam tu baca ayat Quran yang ada tanda... untuk sujud mengakui kebesaran Allah is the Creator. Rakaat pertama tu dia takde rukuk, duduk antara dua sujud or salam ke apa. After sujud tu, berdiri balik then inam sambubg baca ayat Quran. Pastu, buat solat subuh macam biasa. Niat tetap sama. Solat subuh mengikut imam kerana Allah Taala. Perkara ini selalu mereka buat in subuh jumaat. In certain tempat jela practice. So if nak rasa betapa bestnya and am

Assalamualaikum, This so teary stories came from when i'm just finished my first kids volunteer attempt. The gap between handling an adult and kids things are so big. Your feeling and their feeling are light earth and the stars. Which means,  I can still stand still in this earth but they still hoping upon a star. ... Previously, i more focus on teenager or an adult part. But, this time i'm face to face with the kids. Children who are trying to make a small space alone may be in this world to growing up. Their background stories more tragic, So tragic until makes them to have no feeling. Besides that innocent face. Because sort of this, why i want to be a volunteer. If not in money things sometime, May a time they needed for you to hear what they feel. To borrow your shoulder. A hug too.. To stop the tears. Even. My 'lil man. So handsome, i believe in future. But... He deaf and can't speak. May Allah bless his life.

Assalamualaikum, Seperti mana yang dijanjikan, this post tentang what i bought from big bad wolf Mines 2016. So, my total books are dua belas, and net price, Rm 103.00 Big clap for me please.  Not exceed from my bajet. Hehehee... suka tau. Here i want to share some pengalaman and awesome tips for korang. First. Make sure eat dulu before go here. Because after masuk pintu gerbang tu, rasa rugi if kena break between your exploring, kan. And also prepare a bottle of mineral water at least. Or may some gula-gula perhaps. Prevent hypo! = ) And for someone yang used public transport, I suggest you all kaji dulu before heading there. Can check out some webs like... This site, click here. Second trip big bad wolf. Anyway, added from what she wrote, the Heritage hotel is inside that building.  But you just passed that hotel through the side of it. And few walks you are at the back of the building and see the tunnel or boat waiting area. This really helped me unt

Assalamualaikum. Not gonna said that my friends now are suck. But just some moment where, if they added some good reason for me to be there for them. Perhaps, because... Some are more like to be too selfish. Some too count for what they do. Some cannot others be more than them. Some likes others do bullying them. Some even do back-stab. Why can they build good relationship between each others. Respect own right. Keep me live in a positive air. Too make me feel easily to mingle around too. And be the one who are nicer reminder. Remind me to my Creator. Ring a bell, cover for me may be. I will dua for you too. Or may be i'm just too much in asking for what i want? Am i? May be.

When this sale going on, I'm at Pahang enjoying my holiday. So, nak pecut ahad to Putrajaya after that is like a crazy thing. Lagipon no partner nak ajak. Maka, i just ordered online and purchase. My first choice is not this type. But as the dealer said the one i choose is out of stock and have to wait. I pick this one. M size, safe size, And,  blue colour! Cannot wait nak pakai... Or i will wore in next any majlis kahwin, then i have to wait. Maybe ya.

Assalamualaikum, Today i don't have any volunteered programs. So, my rancangan ialah to haunt lots of books. I have two options sama ada untuk ke pesta buku di Pwtc or big bad wolf Mines. And i pick The mines. At first, i thought i can go with my ex colleagues... but they already go. And my bff pulak fall sick. And other friends gi melancong lah and my department pon ada wat kira stock take. Obviously, it's me and my freaking book haunter habits. Never mind. As i really don't like merempit too far sampai sana.  So i'm gonna using public transport and some walks. I'm ready to rocked it with my casual attire, sport shoes, beg belakang and some shopping bag. If terbeli banyak, may be duh. Standby. And my 'lil pack of mineral water and bread with nutella spread, some gula-gula jugak to keep me semangat terus. Makanan tu penting okeh! Hope everything will be alright. May Allah bless me, 'cause first time pergi sana alone. I will gerak awal

This 'lil boy now became his grandfather BFF. Because he the only one yang rajin layan my ayah at his so called, office. Cik Ziqa yang cucu sulung pon kalah. TV Korean drama are more interesting duh.  He likes to eat, you give la apa-apa. Even if dia dengar any sound kat dapur. Sekelip mata, dia ada depan korang. Dahsyat tak? Dedemok la ini budak sudah. But demok mana pon, I still love you!

Assalamualaikum. Last week, after finished my book of Mencari Iman yang Hilang by Mohd Rizal Azman Riffin. I borrowed an interesting book from my friend. Thanks, buddy. It's called Lelaki terakhir menangis di bumi by Musa Nuwayri. Looks like i'm busy for another few hours. Maybe days, two days actually. And 'lil cried towards this book. Who cutting onion during operation? Anyway, I must admit that this a very good way to killing the time. Haunted his other collection, Menjejaki jalan takwa, thanks google... because i like his writing idea. So fantastic! So light but deep, And so inspiring. If you want to borrow it, my pleasure. My respect to you, bro! You're so young but have a very big heart. May Allah bless you, your plans and your every moves. And after i finished this book, Aleppo being attack uncontrolled. When i heard about this, i just want to be alone. Curling up in one side, With my leg bend to my chest. And cried. Because, This

Assalamualaikum, In my previous post... ada talked about telekung siti khadijah. Korang carik la sendiri link dia. That one of my generous friend bagi. And I'm already used it. Best and comfortable, duh. Thanks again. But, i think I should return back to the owner. Should i or shouldn't? Tak kisahlah orang nak cakap the word buruk suku or what if dia accept balik. Or you think i'm crazy enough to let go telekung mahai nih. Not gonna care about it... Why la kan i can't think properly and still accept it after our little drama kat parking masa tu. Huh. Bukan sebab apa, after my first time used this. I have the feeling that I should use it frequently. Bagilah dia continues pahala at least. I still cool. Few times i used, in few months. Makin lama makin pelik. Like every after my prayer... a word dua for him is like a 'must'. Just because i used this telekung. I used others property, what i mean. The weirdest feeling i have. Pretty scary

Assalamualaikum, Jikalau korang nak tahu, antara air putih yang clear tak de rasa tu compare dengan air-air lain yang macam-macam kaler. I better choose air putih. Bukanlah categories maintain sihat. Bajet cool or what are kan, Tapi, I'm the one yang tak pandai buat semua jenis air tu. Serious! Not a coffee, bit for tea maybe. Skill zero for all of this. That's why, buat per penat-penat kan... minum jela air sedia ada. Tak payah bancuh segala. = ) Gila tak gila lah. I will make sure my partner tak a fan pada benda-benda camni semua. Pada mertuaku in future, jgn nyesal tak reject awal-awal dulu. Ups! So, baru-baru ni... sempat la terjah gi umah atok kat Segamat. Tapi dia sebenarnya nenek. Kitaorang panggil dia atok. Dan dia perempuan. Whatever. Nasib malam tu sampai, atoknya tak terkezut dengan kemunculan cucu dia yang entah dia ingat ke tak. Hahahaaa... Anyway, disebabkan dah dok kawasan kampong. So, malam tu gak wasap memainkan peranan untuk

Peah make a lamb! So cool. Keep it up. Have fun dear...

Assalamualaikum. As my hometown dekat dengan Desaru. All that pantai things. Something yang dekatkan kami untuk spent our time together adalah dengan pergi ke sana. Even though not clear and beautiful enough as pantai-pantai yang lain. But this is it. Our happiness. And si Ziqa, Apiz and Anas... since mereka kecik. Dah expose dengan alla this. So, mereka dan pantai memenag tak dapat dipisahkan. If antara pergi shopping and pantai. Mereka first priority adalah pantai. Sebab that remind them to their beloved father. Al-fatihah. I pray one day. I will bring them to pantai alone. With those three kiddos and we have fun. Mampu ke masalahnya? Hhahhahahha.... Anyway, this picture below are the latest update about them and pantai. So happy. So cool. My younger sister terpaksa make this small pool for si Anas. So that he will play together with their sister and brother. Because, it's more safe. = )

Assalamualaikum, When my friend said to come join her and family to Janda Baik. It's like a flash back to my Form 5, English literature novel. It's about Janda Baik duh. Normal stories about how harmonize their communities are. Boring. Never mind. Disebabkan ianya FOC and i have no planning yet, I just follow.... = ) Packing my bag and i meet her at Rawang. Along journey, i can seen lots of home-stay and resort available here. So, if korang tersesat or what. Don't worry about nak tidur mana nanti. Prepare your some money, and choose wisely. If ada berani lebih, gi la tumpang kat perkampungan orang asli nun. They seem friendly. Internet connection are very bad at here. Sorry to say that. Sempat sesat because lost of GPS configured. Just bertumpu pada any signboard yang ada. Nasib sampai. There, can you see a small river. I think i should bring a pelampung next time. So that i can do a river tubing! This is under some persa

Assalamualaikum, These three four days memang sedikit memenatkan. Bukan sedikit, banyak actually. Sebab tu tak sempat nak update my blog. Sorry guys. I'm on-call last weekend. Rezeki Allah bagi, busy dengan rib injuries case. And that really dried out my energy. Habis my half sandwich carbo lunch. Until sampai satu tahap, when everyone busy watching Extravaganza final episode that Sunday night, I sedap-sedap take a nap. I really need it. Nasib on Monday, boleh balik on time. So, i can rest my mind. Take more sleep too. But not my luck i think when on esoknya at the end of that night case. Your team member not take a right responsibilities. A team yang not really understood your limit. Together with your others colleague. Memang rasa nak tumbuk muka orang. I'm not sure if because i'm junior and their senior. I don't freaking care! If you're my super senior... Why when i'm in your job position, i can settle down everything completely.

Assalamualaikum, On December 2nd, KSRP ada buat dinner kat Convention Centre for the first time. Celebrating their 40th years of anniversaries. Likes half of me duh. LOL. At first, tak applied pon. And suddenly, my colleague asked untuk join sama this event. Ticket still available she said. Then, terus sent email and positive feedback. So, as i still off on that Monday. Pergilah ke KLCC, Tower 1. Nak collected ticket on behalf mereka sekali. And after lepas screening part, boleh sesat sampai tingkat 42. Alang-alang dah sesat, jejalan lah sekali kan. Very nice view i can said. Nampak la bridge semua. Hohohooo...Like i cares? After boring, start la buat muka innocent plus cute sebab nak mintak tolong. Nasib jumpa akak baik hati tolong dan cilok masuk staff area sampai la gi tempat collect ticket. Mekasih bebanyak la hakak oi. Theme untuk that dinner adalah black, red and gold. So, i pick gold. And mix and match with anything yang ada dalam simpanan harta karunku.

Assalamualaikum. Here, we’re talking about someone who you’re ideally going to spend the rest of your life with. Don’t make this decision based on momentary emotions and desires…have foresight.  Think about the little things,  The big things, and everything in between before giving your word.  Can you honestly see yourself with this person in all details of your life?  Are they going to help you and your future children prepare for your akhirah? Or are they going to undermine your ibadah?  Below is one story about how beautiful couple gonna found a love for each other. May Allah bless us with such strong support and serenade. Choose happy ending, and treasure for it. To my friend, Mozir, happy wedding day! Tomorrow he's gonna be a husband. Congratulation... "MY WIFE, I AM SORRY" He woke up in the morning and found her praying. He heard her praying for him.He stared at her. It has been a long time since he  has seen  her praying. For the past few months

Assalamualaikum. Just baru-baru ni aku berkesempatan beli makanan kat stall mak cik bawah rumah aku nih. Selalu time aku nak beli, time tu la baru dia bukak. Time aku tak nak beli, sebab aku dah ada breakfast. Time tu gak la dia bukak awai sikit. So, la ni baru aku singgah sebab lapar. Aku pon cam biasa, beli kuih. Campur-campur. And aku choose mee, sebab nasi lemak dia ramai sangat beratur. Malas la. And time nak bayar. Sehinggit jer mee aku tu rupanya. Tak ada telur sebab aku suka homemade punya. Gediks tak. Hehheh... Tapi, Gila murah lak ai dia jual. Nasi lemak, and bihun yang lain-lain pon just sehenggit jer. Patutlah berdoyan-doyan orang datang. Moga murah rezeki ko mak cik anak beranak. Cayokk! Ada time aku beli lagi.

Assalamualaikum. Since my sister stop kerja. And preggy. Dia jadik suri rumah sepenuh masa. So Peah tak pergi any nursery. Dia ajar Peah kat rumah. So far i think that's a good idea. Can i put my kids at your home sis in future? Because nursery sekarang tak boleh di percayai. Scary much. But your house at Tapah! I will miss them. Ok, aku la plak yang jadik suri rumah kalau gitu. My partner must agree with this. Bruhhh... Gila punya statement. And memandangkan Peah pon dalam proses learning. Dia akan everyday tengok cerita budak-budak Akak aku more bagi dia pada art class. Bagi dia enjoy. O, how i miss when my homework just coloring! Huhuhuuu... And how i seen, that kakak aku boleh kawal pola makanan dia. No fast food. No jajan. Not even a chocolate! Then, my sister ajar jugak dia supaya independent. Sidai baju sendiri in her own mini hanger. And ate by herself. Be clean and tidy. And that's brilliant idea. I support you sis.

Assalamualaikum. Masuk nih, dah dua kali aku buat this dessert. And tiap kali tu la licin. Kan aku dah cakap dulu, mereka ni memang spesis piranhas kat Amazon sana. Korang campak la apa kat atas meja tu, gerenti habes. Hahhahaaa... Tak dinafikan, bila penat buat case. Memang akan lapar gila. Sebab tu aku suka standby bar chocolate just in case. Tengok diorang happy makan. Tak dinafikan... aku pon happy sama. Even aku sempat kuis kuis sikit jer. Sebab aku, memang tak suka makan makanan yang aku masak. Tak ada feeling gitu. Sebab tu nanti aku nak carik partner yang pandai masak. Baru best. Before korang masak, meh aku bagi tips ala ala pantang larang untuk masak dessert nih. Paling penting... jangan terlebih air. Guna sukatan air paling minimum. If terlebih, korang buat jelah bubur jagung. Ops. Kena kacau selalu. Api kena maintains. Bila lalai jap, ketoi ketoi la nanti. Dah tak smooth. And lastly, after siap. Better la kan... Letak kat dalam bekas yang kec

Assalamualaikum. Kami adik beradik sangat rapat, mostly among yang perempuan. Plus our mak ayah ajar kami jadi strong. And independent enough. Mungkin sebab tu kami perempuan boleh beat adik beradik lelaki dalam family. Just because they are useless. Sorry bro! Some more, because we are the majority. So give us your respect. And we have our own group Whats app. That's make our bond makin awesome. Then, baru-baru ni... aku telah menjadi main topic in our group. They talk about my dhunya thing. Which i don't really care actually. But they think i have to masuk campur because i'm the owner... so terpaksalah. And they are waiting my next step. What i'm gonna do about that. I actually da tried to deal with the one who used it. Because dulu dia pernah da pinjam. And same problem. Buat macam harta sendirik. Untuk that item i dapat semula not in good condition. My ayah pon tak puas hati. Dia care bagi terbaik balik. So kali ini dia pinjam balik. I sa

Assalamualaikum, Aku rasa la kan, Aku boleh amik part time job as tukang masak kat pantry department aku tu la. Versi ala ala mak cik kantin masa zaman kita kat sekolah dulu. Menarik gila tak. Hohohooo... Tapi menu sajian aku semua tahap campak-campak la. So far, bila ada nasi lebih a day after event makan besar. Muka nilah yang akan kena masak. Aku tak kisah pon sebab aku pantang if tengok makanan dibazirkan begitu jer. Bagi aku if korang tak nak makan maybe akan ada orang lain sudi makan. And, Mak aku tak ajar semua tu. Membazirkan amalan syaitan... maka ada baiknya aku buat nasi goreng. Kannn... Aku gaul gak sekali dengan apa dalam harta karun aku jumpa dalam fridge tu. Tang sayur da kuning-kuning. Aku potong ikut suka. Aku masukkan gak. Sambal belacan stock setahun pon aku guna. And part paling syiok, aku rembat sosej dalam fridge. Ni aku kenal owner dia la. And aku bayar balik ohkey. Tak nak la ada part drama tak puas hati and segala menggungkit-ungk

Assalamualaikum. I knew mesti korang think i'm having a concussion to post something like this. No, i'm not preggo or what. Ohkey. Please. I just found this and it's so interesting. And want to post it here. As referrer later. Ehem. May one fine day, i get married and being pregnant and i can through this special feeling. That a weird little peanut in your tummy. So, i can bullied my partner to search this and read it for me. I will make sure he carik sampai jumpa. Anyway, Who knows? I plan, Allah the mastermind. Aamin. Copy paste from my favorite Facebook page ever. Islamic Practice page. Silalah like if sudi. SUNNAH OF PREGNANCY: ⭐Having children is one of the blessings of Allah. God provides us all with different rizq (well-being), health and offsprings. All of these things are gifts from God and we should be grateful for what we are given and never complain for what we don't have. ⭐It is sunnah to announce the bir

Last call with my locker neighbor or the second shortest person in our department,  Miss Ko Hwee See. She sudah resigned. She said she wants to work kat Singapore. Wish her the best in future.  Koko, This page is for you. I hope you, Stay adorable please even your face so bulat. And your mata kecik. Dekat sana, i hope gak you will jumpa your another mata sepet or same height and get married soon. Peace. I know you hate this statement. But i still love you. Thanks for everything.  Quotes for you... friends are like boobs. Some are big. Some are small. Some are real. Some are fake. But you are the original. Gonna miss you. Big hugs!

Assalamualaikum. In hundred or tak sampai billions of friends aku ada. Fact or not facts... At least satu mesti sangkut. Yang aku terpaksa deal dengan dia punya manners. So annoying. Like dia jer semua yang betul. Huh. Mula-mula i tried to think positive. Sebab so far dia punya manners still in my range. Belum tunjuk taring lagi kot. But lately... we are memang tak boleh kamceng lagi dah. Cannot. I said, i cannot tahan. How can boleh aku tahan lagi? Bila aku tengok dia, rasa nak tumbuk or kick orang dah ni When dia senang-senang nak tried bullies me. Aku bagi muka emotionless. Annoy aku dengan sengaja. Ini kadang-kadang aku marah la jugak. Tapi pastu aku senyum balik. Sebab bagi aku hidup kena maintain cool. And then when dia start hurting you physically. That the full stop. To me! Hello. Like freaking damn aku nak biarkan jer. Sakit gila. Stupid. My left arm red for two days and bruise for another seven days. But i'm not telling dia. Likes di

Assalamualaikum. Last Saturday, i said to my friend in serious tone. I want the Shirt that he will get from his Sunday morning event. Occasion run with Bio essence I think. I donno why i cared so much, before this any run marathon he joined. I tak ambil kisah pon. Lantaklah. But this one... menarik like crazy my sense, that i want that shirt really bad. Not sure by the way, if that shirt are good looking or not. Like i said, my senses. I said to him. I will waited at the finishing line. To grab his shirt, and bawak lari. Gila tak gila. Even tak buat pon sebenarnya sebab i'm oncall hokey. Job calling. Lots of case are waiting on that day! Hailo. After i cannot pujuk him. I tried to this one guy. Dia pon join gak. Even we selalu fight like there is no tomorrow but for that shirt i sanggup. So, i WhatsApp him. I said i want that shirt... he replied every message in blur figured. Bruhhh... And the next day. When i seen my friends posted about the marath

Assalamualaikum, Last week someone came to my department and jual tudung. So, one friend show me that kind of tudung. And i'm really fall in love with the color. But the one she tunjuk, she already bought it. Poor me. And one guy as usual be a model for me. He style that tudung. The one yang tinggal bit bright colour. Not so fine. I just, maybe next time... And suddenly he ask me if i want it or not. I like, maybe next session duh. And he said, if you want just take it. Dia akan bayar. I like... are you serious... sayang? Like damn serious?!!! And he angguk-angguk. I thought he just joking around. Even sebenarnya, i wish it's true. So, i tried it on me and put it back in place and leave it there. And when i came back the seller told me. Ini untuk awak, that guy akan bayar. And when I asked that guy is he serious about this. And dia cakap, ya. I said... thank you sayang. And that make me smile. Then, on the way untuk simpan dalam my locker,

Assalamualaikum. Yesterday, i posted about Peah and something related about children to Islamic thing. Then today, I found this good advises from Facebook. That i really excited to share it with you all. Really good duh. Very awesome advises to anyone who don't know to start a first steps about this. Right. And, you all can like this page too. This page is super nice and lots of knowledgable Islamic post. Can motivated your soul every second. Every day. Like me. It's called... Islamic practice , page. And please look through this page as you wanted. How to inspire manners to your children: 1. When entering the house greet your children with salams and kisses. This should help develop their sense of love and mercy. 2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children listen, absorb and emulate. 3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiti