LIFE: Whose fault is this?

 Hello!

I want to ask you all about one condition that I still thinking about it... I already discussed this situation with five to ten others matured adult people and until today, I'm lost. I still searching and dig it more because I want the best answered for it. It's actually not my problem but somehow I see that I can learnt beautifully about life from it. Just like others mistake or history that we have to take a look, and make sure not to repeat it too. Hopefully, you all can get something from today post. So, here the real story:

There is one man around early 30-an, who's still stay with their parents and on off for job. He's certificated only with High School knowledge and no more or less. He don't have any money in account, no asset to talk about and had a past in some 'dirty' issues. The problem are...when everyone advised him about to move on and get a new life. He said that all what he gone through is his FATE! This is what make me so mad. Hello... Nothing is call as fate until you're bloodily death. Huh. You're still has a mind to think and limb to make little efforts. Take a step forward even you have to craw or jump around on your own journey... Do something!

Previously in my post about-A seven years old kid, I already make some statement about how a person should be teach from a day they were born until 21 years old, through Islam ways. And back again, if something like above happened... Whose fault is that? 40% said their parents, and 70% blame that person himself. Yeah, for that age of 30 years old-You own your own life and responsible for own path. After 21 years old, your parents really don't own your crazy super high maintenance whatever you want. You want, get it by yourself.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your parents because you're not successful in life. Who are you to blame them instead you should pay back them for what they had sacrifices for you. Do you have maybe around 200,000 dollar right now to show them that they're wrong you're right? If no, just shut up and go away. That's the amount for all your foods, cloths, toys, hospital bills, housing, and etc. Don't you dare to open your mouth if you have any single penny about it. You're not even qualified in any aspect, uneducated life.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your siblings because you're not take their advice in past. When you're a kid, sibling is someone that very close in your life. You take it or leave it-Your choice. If you treat each other like 'rubbish', than you get what you give. Meaningless relationship surely later they will lose hope in you and not gonna be by your side. A lonely loser...what a pity life. Is it your truly fate? Meh, more like a stupid decision.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your friends because they show you a wrong way. Wow, what a thick face you have... Randomly blaming many people surround for own mistake in life. I don't know how to said, that how low people can put their brain are. Can maybe someday just throw your head and feed your brain to shark in the deep sea. There are lots of manual guide-old school, nerd and kind heart friends...Maybe it's too boring and you just do the skip to wrong way. Instead to pull yourself back on track, you're enjoying too much. No, no...

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your government because you're not get what you want. What a joke for today...Blaming something towards the concrete wall without any back support! You don't have a power of money, status even a good heart to prove. Millions thousand blaming you throw to them, they just laugh and enjoying your your own stupidity. Go, and built your own gun and come back if you want to fight. Real fight.

And lastly, I can said you're so RUDE if you still said it's all your FATE, because in big picture...You're blame your Creator for what ever happens in your life story. Such a shameful manners a sinner had. Everyday He give you a chance after wake up in the morning to go to heaven and enjoying better life but you willingly run to the hell. Such a wasted life and later I hope you not regret what are you doing...Because even a death person want to come back to life and show back the perfection in everything. Think carefully.

So whose fault is this? Now, I know my answer...He is the one should be blame. He is not dyslexia with worse in reading  or calculating. To bad, he blame people around him. I pray he and everyone that read this which have the same problem, will do some changes for better life and no regret when the times called. We treasure a happy ending episode!

Thought: .... and I will go for it

Hai. Happy Sunday guys!

Let's talk about my life right now, I can said everything going smoothly. I prays before end of this year, my goal will come true. This I called as big step in continues life for a better living and peacefulness. It's a good news actually... That I will share later on in my next post after I confirm everything. Can't wait anymore. 

This is quite terrifying to me actually but in the end I decided,

This is my life,

This is my journey,

This is my story,

This is my dream,

This is what I'm waiting for,

.... and I will go for it. 

And I can do it. Yes, just do it. Like Mr Nike quotes...I don't want to hold back and be regret later. My family member too excited for me and friends quite sad but they said it's a wonderful choice. I still need their support and advice in this big steps. I promise will share this amazing news as soon as possible to you all. Keep reading!

Five tips to decide if he is your real partner?

Hello,

I know everyone on this earth wants a happy ending in their relationship, me too. Imagine... me and my partner will in a long-lasting relationship until our golden age, also before I close my eyes forever. Sweet romance. Oh-please let it be me. And to do so, I have to find a real partner. A real men that  becomes reality which often bring out the better in me and our future. Here I listed some tips on how to decide this perfect figure...let's do it. Opps. If you're a men, you can change the the title name into she or her as vise versa:

1) His mindset 

I like men with brilliant mind. Maybe because I'm a bit matured than my age, so I need a man that can take care of himself than being a childish forever. I can said, I will not be their next ''mother''. Understood?  In some part I need sense of humor but some part reality hit us hard in fact I need he to be serious in time event. Also, his psyche will raise my children and their manners-not by his body and good looks. So, I need to choose wisely. 

2) His financial

I want a stability in financial, that later I shouldn't need to worried about my spending in sixty and about my children education too. I know I can't get a super rich man to marry me, so I just want a simple man that interesting enough in manage our financial. Let say he must know the expenses going on in the home, maybe sometimes help in groceries shopping, and think before buy something useless. That's because I prefer minimalist.

3) His religion

A real men should strongly believe in his religion. In many religion, it surely will talks about manner someone should be and how to respect others. If he can shows a respect towards me as his partner, in the same time he will reveal a good communication in our relationship. I know communication is very important in getting lasting relationship. So, I need to treasure this part deeply. Later, he can lead me and our little family towards better life. Ouwwww... Nice words. 

4) His cleanliness

I don't want to be a slave or maid in my own house even when I have a kid. My partner should know why tidiness is very important, and later my kids will learn from us. Not gonna said I'm freaking OCD person...but simply clean okay. So, how can I know that he is a decent man that later will maintain our home cleanliness? Not I hope he only dress to impress me, nah. Maybe I can check it out on how good he in keeping himself well groomed. Oh-Yes!

5) His anger/egoistic management

Anger and egoistic is part of life, but the real question is how we manage it? Every second, our hormones will be up and down, and the environment will messed it up more. So, men pretend be more aggressive angrier than a women. I want a peaceful married life not an abused one. It's not healthy for my skin to have a blue patch. Hehehheh... And I also want a less egoistic men to be discuss in everyday routine. Keep calm, why need to be so egoistic? Cool down and think something peaceful-Okay.