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LIFE: What overthinking does to you

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 Hai, Let's see what overthinking is, thoroughly it is that someone thinking too much instead of acting and doing things. Their mind busy in analyze, comment and imagine better things about it, over and over again. They will come with no ending mind discussion, no decision making and a deep feeling that something is wrong everywhere. This personal habit will prevent them from taking any action. Someone in this situation always in dilemma that make them stuck in one place and waiting for the perfect time to act or move, but in the end they still do nothing. If the problem become more and more bigger, someone can lead to a psychological problems, later linked something like depression or anxiety. So, be aware of anything that you feed your mind. When I was a childhood, I was a freely person. My parents raised me well with love and passion about how to be a good girl and get a greater life. I let my action make my day, full of passion, think smart and lead to the bright sunshine day i

LIFE: Shiny bright light in the skies

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Hi, I know somehow I'm a super weird person ever live in this earth. And one of my favorite thing to do is to look up to the skies and think about life. I poured all my problems, promises, thoughts to the endless universe above. Maybe perhaps the star will blink more, the sun shine smilingly or someone at Pluto's will hear me and save me. Oh come on... Mars will be residential in next chapter. Then, be hype about all alien invasion soon.  Get back to the earth, when I see the skies... I will picturing that all the clouds are holding my every dreams-Big or small. The weather is my challenge, sunny day is my favorite and if it's rain then a tears gonna come soon. I dunno, maybe nature hear me well. And for daylight, I will be think about random stuff but if it's night time... It will be more about soul and personal space.  Deep inside me, I still have a heart to care about. There are a lots to talk about... a revenge towards people, ragging hormones in broken things, huma

Five tips to decide if he is your real partner?

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Hello, I know everyone on this earth wants a happy ending in their relationship, me too. Imagine... me and my partner will in a long-lasting relationship until our golden age, also before I close my eyes forever. Sweet romance. Oh-please let it be me. And to do so, I have to find a real partner. A real men that  becomes reality which often bring out the better in me and our future. Here I listed some tips on how to decide this perfect figure...let's do it. Opps. If you're a men, you can change the the title name into she or her as vise versa: 1) His mindset   I like men with brilliant mind. Maybe because I'm a bit matured than my age, so I need a man that can take care of himself than being a childish forever. I can said, I will not be their next ''mother''. Understood?  In some part I need sense of humor but some part reality hit us hard in fact I need he to be serious in time event. Also, his psyche will raise my children and their manners-not by his body

LIFE: How to tell the kids a real answer

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Hi, Few days ago, my sister shared about their kids life. Which they start to ask about their late father - Al Fatihah to him. If I'm in her shoes, I also dunno how to response. But, they should be exposes about it and face it. That's the reality. When the he kids attend the school, and see how lovely everyone had own father...the question start to raise. And abut how many times you repeated it, they still does not understand. And you just have to make it in simple answer and not so complicated one. Keep strong sister or any mother out there who...in the same situation.  And as a good teacher, please be aware every question you gonna asked your student. Person private life may looks simple as kids at very young age but did you know how they feel inside. Do you always be there for them, no. So please be caution in every words. A sharp tongue can cut a whole heart... This maybe looks so cruel or too rush. But until when? Keep a secret towrads their entire life. You must be so s

LIFE: It's okay to be stubborn

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Hi. Let's get it straight to the point. Do you ever in a situation that you feel that you're to stubborn to say even a yes? A nod that everyone want you to follow and follow the system, but you're too hard to approach? U-huh, I can said that whatever you're in my condition...if you feel right in your own path, just go on with it and move on. They can isolate you from normal routine, not going for lunch together or even let you make fun of yourself. This is where true friends really come in handle, and you can remove this toxic relationship to the rubbish bin. You don't need them in your life because if they can respect you in this situation, how can they support you in worse case? Why still waiting a hope? Keep your head up, chest forward and straight body because this is you! This is what your identity and your pathway. This is what you are doing right now. If they can move on, you the one that move. This is what it is, the history already happened. A trusty, a sin