Recycling your things

Assalamualaikum.

Hello, hello, hello. Long time no see...
At last, i got my own time to write something here as no classes and just two final papers on next week.
So. What's interesting? A lot actually.
I'm so happy round around with life as a student.
And lots of activities.
Times wasted can't be refunded right.
So i used it wisely enough.

First, I packed all my things which are not important anymore and sent to H&M, and left up wherever things i required much only.
Need a space to breath.
Also scrubbing here and there, dust please go away!
This part took me about one month to go throughout everything. Even so tired but then it satisfying as i like the result.
My room and the bathroom are so refreshing and bling.bling.bling.

One good slot is I did my time management online course. Alhamdulillah. Everything going smoothly and I like it very much.
Now practices in my daily life.
Tried to make as a routine to transform becoming a habit.
Tougher day by day.
But i know i can do it.
Fighting...

Last week, i got a week and half time to go back at my hometown Johor.
Happy dance for me.
I did all the chores inside the house, as my main planning is to clear up all the old-old things. Mostly focus on the clotting line.
Sorted the baju kurung, jeans, blouse not fitted anymore and some 'kain buruk' too.
So far as the results i get 16 medium recycle bags! A lot right...
This bags are go to the H&M as usual.

Why H&M?
Because when you sent it there for recycle, one bag they will give you a free coupon valued 15% for any of H&M clothes.
Happy them, happy me.
I sent an old clothes, i replaced it with new one.
Yeah, but not so happy duh.
Because the coupons all goes to my sister.
She took all of it.
Whatever.

Another old things i disposed in that house are the papers, newspapers and empty boxes.
Secure it nicely and tied it tightly with ropes.
Sent to the disposes area.
At kota tinggi, Johor there is one small shop just behind the Mayers hotel do this kind of recycle things.
You also can sent 'besi buruk' too.
So, get your house clean now.
Go.
The payment? Now much, for two medium boxes i only get Rm 3.40. What a joke...
Again, whatever.

At that time, Johor is so hot because not raining for almost a month.
On my way go back home from the morning walk at the beach, i can seen some areas are already burnt.
And very dried.
Just remembered to drink a lot of water and avoid outdoor activities actually.

... So, this is my full stop.
Sorry.
I will continue later.
Stay healthy guys.
= )

ISLAM: A special story about seven years old

Hello.

I really likes the picture above.... Their smile, hand in the air, dirt at trouser, green grass and bubbles everywhere-The environment is so perfect. I don't have any kid yet, but to me if one day God give me one.... I want to it looks like this. Maybe my partner has to be more though in do the washing later.

Not having any children doesn't mean I can't learn anything about them, some info never be a harm right. Like, it somehow so beneficial to me in future. Like any parents out there, I want the best for my kids. So, keep reading and try to get an idea from this post, and enjoy.

Last year i had seen a YouTube video from Dr Bruce Lipton, about how we're programmed at birth. It's so interesting to watch because it's a special story about seven years old and the development things that happen to them specifically. Called me nerd and weird, but yeah. It still amaze me.

From there, I synchronize it with my religion...Islam. I searched any special verse in Quran that somehow touch about this topic. And also make some room for any some hadith too. Later, I brilliantly makes all of this became more and more interesting. In the same time, it encourage me to dig more.

The division is based on the following hadith of the Prophet (s.a.w.): “The child is the master for seven years; and a slave for seven years and a vizier for seven years; so if he grows into a good character within 21 years, well and good; otherwise leave him alone because you have discharged your responsibility before Allah.”

The same hadith has been explained by Imam Ja`far as-Sadiq (a.s.): “Let your child play up to seven years; and keep him with you (for education and training) for another seven years; then if he succeeds (well and good); otherwise, there is no good in him.”

An example between this two part (above) I can said...our life be sort of by seven years old each time. Is it give you any heart attack? Don't worry, you should be appreciate everything you have right now. Maybe you can make undo by teach a right things to your own kid. Just search more, read more and interesting enough into how growth and development process in human, by physical and mind. 

 

First seven years old (Master)-The baby (0-12 months) we treat as a fragile human that every parents will give them everything they needed-breastfeed, expensive diapers and toys. At toddler (1-3 years old) and preschool (3-5 years old) time, the prince or princess will exposes into intellectual, social and emotional changes. In term, teach them play right (good words, creativity-they will surely follow your every action) until grade school er (5-7 years old). 

Next seven years old (Slave)-Continues from grade school er (8-12 years old). As busy you're, makes your kids busy too... These is the time when their own personal power evolves, parents need to be a better guidance in making them have successful life experience. The teenager (12-14 years old), as far as they want to be independent but you're still the chief or top manager in their every mastermind and action. I don't wanna a spoil growth children with useless manner around me. If you kids have a respect towards you, they will listen to you. This also the best zone to teach them salah, sunnah and dua' to memorize. 

Later seven years old (Vizier)-Continues from the teenager (15-18 years old), adolescence may hit hard to every parents. This is because the kids will deeply understand what frustration, stress and depression are, and then also bring a joy, pride and closeness to us. The young adult (19-21 years old), this time they will go to to college or university, or even drop everything and get a job. Slowly you will let them responsible by own decision and start analyze whether your hard work really working or not by realize that they're built into good manner or worsen. 

Woah, so much commitment! Yups. It's not easy when you want to form a better figure human in the community. You as a parents will makes a first impression in kid life follow by a good teachers and their friends. So teach them right, if not bad influence will affect or led them-maybe from their friends or environment. Dr Henker quote said , ''Stop trying to perfect your child, but keeping trying to perfect your relationship with them''. 

Share some of your too below, bye!

LIFE: Two more chapters.

Hai, 

This semester, I felt that I want to knock out my head at the wall several times. Just to wake up my mind to make it functioning faster and better, because I really need it right now. How tougher it gets, it's always there. Like, just better face it duh. You fight or you flight... And fail? No, please. 

Other things are good, bit struggled with anatomy and physiology are normal. I'm done combined three chapters in mscoskeletal, five in nervous system, and reproductive system is four. This three weeks fully with lecturer time, two week self study and scheduled for surgery practical part. Then exam session. How about next week?

Next week is more crazy life, how can I survive... You tell me. Partly, I make an effort to push my self to the limit. And this is because I know I can do it. I willingly choose to fight, for my future of course. If not me, who? So, let me do it by myself. Such a good kid am I. 

Next holiday time, I want spent it wisely between treating myself well and surrounded by special books. Sweet as always. Hahahah... My new year 2019 celebration? My eyes on the book page but my ears hear those fireworks. Then, continuing read. 

I somehow don't really like to waste time. Sorry dudes, life is short. Every seconds are counting preciously. Now, i just have have left two more chapters to finish in anatomy and physiology part. Yehaaaa. Keep going, My fever is on and off, so funny hormones. Maybe I'm caught out in stress. 

Alright, gonna stop now. Post out soon with new story about student life. Fighting!