What are good manners for kids?

 Hai, 

Let's get a deal, I'm not married yet and I don't have a kids. I know this topic maybe not for me, but I still wants to talk about it. Because I'm surely thought that if I have them one day, the first thing they should know is to learn a good manner. Bold and protective, yeah. I'm not a super patient type of person and the crying non stop from them will make more tension relationship between us. I don't want to stress out myself, and that kids should know the manners by one years old! Can they?

For parents who want to have a kid, think again. Are you responsible and ready enough? This is because I knows having a kid is not easy full time job. Especially for single mother or father. You're tougher than everyone else. There somehow not always the rainbow or baby laughter but what if I want both of it while raises them? Why flight the reality if you can fight for what you deserved? They are memories that you will missed and loved when they are getting bigger and away. Enjoy every single second.

The newborn baby are like a white canvas, and you're the one who give colors to them. You want they keep in what you're living, dark and isolated? Or explore this colorful life, be happiest and better person ever! Remember, your kids reflected of your inner soul until they can think by themselves who they want be influences by. So as the first person in their life, give your best manners and teach the right things. They will follow you, the only real model they see everyday. Did you see where this goes? 

What are good manners for kids?

1- Say only good words.

2- Use word ''please'' appropriately.

3- When talk, look people in the eyes.

4- Sincere in word ''thank you''.

5- Say ''yes'' and ''no'' or give explanation at the right time.

6- Apologize when did something wrong.

7- Smile and compliment others freely.

8- Good table manners and eating well.

9- Happy play outside than stuck with phone.

10- Ask question and explore own life.

I will go with above list and for those parents with problematic kids, it can be turn out okay. Take your time from now and don't realize late because the faster you make a changes the better. I'm want to be a cool mom, I hope my future partner happy about it and my kids accept it well and yeah. For amazing life and better future! Get in to rock the pathway.

Third Pillar of Islam (Rukun Islam 3)

Assalamualaikum,

InsyaAllah today is all about our Third Pillar of Islam; Zakat. This is individual consideration of obligatory respond on own slave duty to the Creator each year of Islamic Calendar. This self-purification type where when He give you basic things in life then He also provides more than you expected likes income, wealth or commodities. Then with sincerity, you give it back to community because there always have someone poor or need it more than you expected. 

I'm not saying you should give all you have, in zakat terms there are percentage for it. In Malaysia, there are differences types zakat you can find. Or you can go to Malaysian Zakat Web for more information. Another country, I don't know but I'm sure they also have the right way to do it. Randomly, if the government can taxes you for their benefit of return to public infrastructure or economy, thus zakat is like your charity for Muslims population. 

Besides, there are many others benefit of giving zakat; obedience to Allah rules where the slave shows the respect to the Creator. In balancing money and life where at starter we enter with nothing and then we leave this world with nothing too. This also good in built sharing manners, keep humanity alive in Muslims world. Another one is to avoid greed and misleading status power, it teach us to be remaining humble and kind. 

P/S: 

-The common minimum amout for those who qualify is 2.5% or 1/40 of individual Muslim total savings or wealth.

-Before do the zakat; you must be conscious, not a slave to someone, you have own right in own things, the ''nisab'' nd ''haul'' are perfect, and if you give it you don't be bankruptcy.

My Booklist: June 2021

Hai,

How are you guys right now? I hope you're doing well. I know Malaysia still lockdown in certain places and the cases still in between 5,000 to 6,000 per day. The government wants 4,000 cases and below to lift up the movement control.  Keep strong all people in there, you all can do it. Everyone will have a mental distress because of this but please maintains free mental health. Pray to your Creator and cried your heart out. Or, built close relationship with trusted people around you and let all the feeling go. Don't burden yourself with unnecessary things and influenced by mental judgmental. You have own right to be happy!

1. The richest man in Babylon, George Samuel

2. The secret of Millionaire mind, T Harv Eker

3. Capitalism and freedom, Milton Friedman

4. Das Kapital, Karl Max. 

5. The general theory of employment, interest and money, John Maynard Keyness. 

6. The 48 laws of power, Robert Greene

7. The champion's mind, Jim Afremov

8. Man's search for meaning, Victor E Frankl

9. Zero to one, Peter Theil

10. Crushing it, Gary Vaynerchuk

11. The tiny small changes habit that change everything, BJ Fogg. 

12. Resisting happiness, Matthew Kelly

13.The secret, Rhonda Byrne

In my previous post, May's Booklist, I target for 20 books but I think I didn't make it because here I can only show the 13 booklist for June 2021. I felt little bit bad because that month my two or three books choices quite heavy and need more than a week to settle down. I also get on with  my other project and that subject pretty need lots research. So, for July booklist I target about 15 books to review and summarizes. I should try harder in achieve it. Then see you in next post! 

Bye.