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LIFE: What overthinking does to you

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 Hai, Let's see what overthinking is, thoroughly it is that someone thinking too much instead of acting and doing things. Their mind busy in analyze, comment and imagine better things about it, over and over again. They will come with no ending mind discussion, no decision making and a deep feeling that something is wrong everywhere. This personal habit will prevent them from taking any action. Someone in this situation always in dilemma that make them stuck in one place and waiting for the perfect time to act or move, but in the end they still do nothing. If the problem become more and more bigger, someone can lead to a psychological problems, later linked something like depression or anxiety. So, be aware of anything that you feed your mind. When I was a childhood, I was a freely person. My parents raised me well with love and passion about how to be a good girl and get a greater life. I let my action make my day, full of passion, think smart and lead to the bright sunshine day i...

LIFE: Shiny bright light in the skies

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Hi, I know somehow I'm a super weird person ever live in this earth. And one of my favorite thing to do is to look up to the skies and think about life. I poured all my problems, promises, thoughts to the endless universe above. Maybe perhaps the star will blink more, the sun shine smilingly or someone at Pluto's will hear me and save me. Oh come on... Mars will be residential in next chapter. Then, be hype about all alien invasion soon.  Get back to the earth, when I see the skies... I will picturing that all the clouds are holding my every dreams-Big or small. The weather is my challenge, sunny day is my favorite and if it's rain then a tears gonna come soon. I dunno, maybe nature hear me well. And for daylight, I will be think about random stuff but if it's night time... It will be more about soul and personal space.  Deep inside me, I still have a heart to care about. There are a lots to talk about... a revenge towards people, ragging hormones in broken things, huma...

FINANCE: Living cost in Malaysia.

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 Hi Malaysian, Let's talk about money today. How good are you now in managing your own money? Pretty well or meh, not doing so good. I may not the perfect person to talk about this, but I still got the basic about financial management. Right, in helping you to do that... Do you know what are top three our money wasted on? Probably many will said foods! Yeah, foods is one of the reason behind it. But, the truly answer are... In the first place is housing -Yeap! This part will burden you more if you have a house. Casually mortgage payment here may around Rm 1,800-800 per month. Or I can said some will have up to Rm 2,500...Yo. Then, this are not includes all the electric and water bills, the maintenance fees, the renovation, the groceries every weekend and  etc. Even if you not bought a house, housing will take part under rent amount. It still kicking you, but in a little amount. For my observation, this percentage will affect you 50%-60% randomly. Second place is transportatio...

LIFE: Whose fault is this?

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 Hello! I want to ask you all about one condition that I still thinking about it... I already discussed this situation with five to ten others matured adult people and until today, I'm lost. I still searching and dig it more because I want the best answered for it. It's actually not my problem but somehow I see that I can learnt beautifully about life from it. Just like others mistake or history that we have to take a look, and make sure not to repeat it too. Hopefully, you all can get something from today post. So, here the real story: There is one man around early 30-an, who's still stay with their parents and on off for job. He's certificated only with High School knowledge and no more or less. He don't have any money in account, no asset to talk about and had a past in some 'dirty' issues. The problem are...when everyone advised him about to move on and get a new life. He said that all what he gone through is his FATE! This is what make me so mad. Hello....

Thought: .... and I will go for it

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Hai. Happy Sunday guys! Let's talk about my life right now, I can said everything going smoothly. I prays before end of this year, my goal will come true. This I called as big step in continues life for a better living and peacefulness. It's a good news actually... That I will share later on in my next post after I confirm everything. Can't wait anymore.  This is quite terrifying to me actually but in the end I decided, This is my life, This is my journey, This is my story, This is my dream, This is what I'm waiting for, .... and I will go for it.  And I can do it. Yes, just do it. Like Mr Nike quotes...I don't want to hold back and be regret later. My family member too excited for me and friends quite sad but they said it's a wonderful choice. I still need their support and advice in this big steps. I promise will share this amazing news as soon as possible to you all. Keep reading!

Five tips to decide if he is your real partner?

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Hello, I know everyone on this earth wants a happy ending in their relationship, me too. Imagine... me and my partner will in a long-lasting relationship until our golden age, also before I close my eyes forever. Sweet romance. Oh-please let it be me. And to do so, I have to find a real partner. A real men that  becomes reality which often bring out the better in me and our future. Here I listed some tips on how to decide this perfect figure...let's do it. Opps. If you're a men, you can change the the title name into she or her as vise versa: 1) His mindset   I like men with brilliant mind. Maybe because I'm a bit matured than my age, so I need a man that can take care of himself than being a childish forever. I can said, I will not be their next ''mother''. Understood?  In some part I need sense of humor but some part reality hit us hard in fact I need he to be serious in time event. Also, his psyche will raise my children and their manners-not by his body ...

Islamic: Turn house into a place of Barakah

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Assalamualaikum, As a Muslim, I want applied Islam as much as I can in my life. I wish that every time I open my eyes and every steps that I took, there will be a 'réwards' or pahala for me. This is because we don't know when the time is calling... Right? Allahu Akhbar, may Allah bless us in every seconds. Alright, for today's topic I will just focus on the comfortable place in our hearts...Home. How to make our house into a Barakah place? To do so, there are several ways that everyone can practice actually.  I can said something like house far from dog or pig neighborhood , Why? Because this are pets that Allah forbidden practitioner Islam to touch or eat. So, why bother to clean my house or floor every time I see they step on it or poops everywhere... If I can avoid it. Easy. Not gonna wasting my precious time. More, no live art or doll inside the house . The Prophet PBUH said, ''Angels (of Mercy) do not enter a house wherein is a dog or a picture of living cr...