Hai, Divorce! Surely its not about me, I'm not married yet but I received a big news today about a it from my near relatives. I'm not in a good position to talk about this thing but it is a point of view from a single women in their 30's-I think I will proceed then. I know there are several reason "masuk akal" or not for file a divorce. But I blame both sided for it or vice versa, I support both sided. I don't choose either one because it take two to tango. Decision to take someone your best friend or life strangers to become your partner, is a big life journey ahead. You may say her/his only your plus one, how about child then a role as a parents to them? Then, a role for in laws? Relatives? Then next to next generation? So, think carefully... You may tie a knot with different style, the result to accept and blended well together is a teamwork job. To me, communication the one. Say directly, humorously but trust way, and whatever for take clear line in it.  S