Good life and good time
Hai.
2024, I'm 34 years old. Sometimes I wonder what someone should be act in personality, behavior in my age? What about if they are single person? Am I too far behind them or am I too mature from it? In my 20-an I always think about others and become easily emotional trap about society scam. I stay in freedom without a real goal. I'm floating around and searching what the best for my life. I stay out until one or three in the morning and eat more junk foods. Do I regret about my 20's? No, because these experiences teach me everything. I'm happy about that, big circle and more laugh.
After I reach 28-29 years old, I face the reality of life that this is not me. Then, I continue study and upgrade my skills. From here, I isolated my life for a year and reduced to a small circle friend. I know who's back stabbed me and who are the sincerely one. I make drastically change over 360 degrees when I also apply for oversea job. I know I'm still 50: 50 about that but I ready for the new adventure. At that time is pandemic with quarantine, so I make myself a clear goal. Happens to be world great recession but good life for me. Uhks!
Then, I started to travel around the world if I'm on my vacation. I don't really brag about up and down from the plane nearly seven or eight times per month. Only it makes sick of the airport waiting time and my butt pain! One time I had enough when I saw someone post about picture or video travel mode. But I still continue this tradition. I have too... because I want more explorer in the world of culture, foods and people life. I want to take what's the best and apply it in my life and prepare for the future.
My next point may be opposite from others. That, I like changes...the routine I had in my 20-s give me enough lesson. Since I enter my 30-an, I see change give me fresher and challenges mode. Even I change position for the table or chair in my room, I still make my day. I apply this in my organized life and financial part. So far so good, because it gives a better vibe and for me to achieve more. I happy with it. I think I should make explain about this good thing in one full post. Yeah, I will make it later if I'm free.
I realize in my 34 years old; I stay away from overthinking life. This a very good idea so far that I apply in my life. That's push me to any edge, don't care if I have to eat alone in the restaurant and mingle around. Many people too afraid of people eyes, so don't stare at them! I know the society judgmental are more dangerous, how I'm facing it? I judge them back... so it is a win-win situation. How come they want to classify you, who are they? They even don't pay your bill, dear. Be real and have a good time of your life.
Emotional is one of the reasons how people can drag you down. When you're feeling sad, harmful then you will follow advice without thinking well. Then, worse decision make that later affects your own life. I can say that more people think I'm a mysterious and quiet person because for me I will leave the conversation if it not beneficial enough. Why should I waste my time and think about other problem, I got my own problem and I'm be there to only want the solution. Small circle help much in this situation, no more unnecessary drama.
Anyway, whatever your life would be... stay happy and be a meaningful one!
