LIFE: Whose fault is this?

 Hello!

I want to ask you all about one condition that I still thinking about it... I already discussed this situation with five to ten others matured adult people and until today, I'm lost. I still searching and dig it more because I want the best answered for it. It's actually not my problem but somehow I see that I can learnt beautifully about life from it. Just like others mistake or history that we have to take a look, and make sure not to repeat it too. Hopefully, you all can get something from today post. So, here the real story:

There is one man around early 30-an, who's still stay with their parents and on off for job. He's certificated only with High School knowledge and no more or less. He don't have any money in account, no asset to talk about and had a past in some 'dirty' issues. The problem are...when everyone advised him about to move on and get a new life. He said that all what he gone through is his FATE! This is what make me so mad. Hello... Nothing is call as fate until you're bloodily death. Huh. You're still has a mind to think and limb to make little efforts. Take a step forward even you have to craw or jump around on your own journey... Do something!

Previously in my post about-A seven years old kid, I already make some statement about how a person should be teach from a day they were born until 21 years old, through Islam ways. And back again, if something like above happened... Whose fault is that? 40% said their parents, and 70% blame that person himself. Yeah, for that age of 30 years old-You own your own life and responsible for own path. After 21 years old, your parents really don't own your crazy super high maintenance whatever you want. You want, get it by yourself.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your parents because you're not successful in life. Who are you to blame them instead you should pay back them for what they had sacrifices for you. Do you have maybe around 200,000 dollar right now to show them that they're wrong you're right? If no, just shut up and go away. That's the amount for all your foods, cloths, toys, hospital bills, housing, and etc. Don't you dare to open your mouth if you have any single penny about it. You're not even qualified in any aspect, uneducated life.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your siblings because you're not take their advice in past. When you're a kid, sibling is someone that very close in your life. You take it or leave it-Your choice. If you treat each other like 'rubbish', than you get what you give. Meaningless relationship surely later they will lose hope in you and not gonna be by your side. A lonely loser...what a pity life. Is it your truly fate? Meh, more like a stupid decision.

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your friends because they show you a wrong way. Wow, what a thick face you have... Randomly blaming many people surround for own mistake in life. I don't know how to said, that how low people can put their brain are. Can maybe someday just throw your head and feed your brain to shark in the deep sea. There are lots of manual guide-old school, nerd and kind heart friends...Maybe it's too boring and you just do the skip to wrong way. Instead to pull yourself back on track, you're enjoying too much. No, no...

I can said, you're a loser if you still blame your government because you're not get what you want. What a joke for today...Blaming something towards the concrete wall without any back support! You don't have a power of money, status even a good heart to prove. Millions thousand blaming you throw to them, they just laugh and enjoying your your own stupidity. Go, and built your own gun and come back if you want to fight. Real fight.

And lastly, I can said you're so RUDE if you still said it's all your FATE, because in big picture...You're blame your Creator for what ever happens in your life story. Such a shameful manners a sinner had. Everyday He give you a chance after wake up in the morning to go to heaven and enjoying better life but you willingly run to the hell. Such a wasted life and later I hope you not regret what are you doing...Because even a death person want to come back to life and show back the perfection in everything. Think carefully.

So whose fault is this? Now, I know my answer...He is the one should be blame. He is not dyslexia with worse in reading  or calculating. To bad, he blame people around him. I pray he and everyone that read this which have the same problem, will do some changes for better life and no regret when the times called. We treasure a happy ending episode!